The question most often asked to a Sexologist! There are so many variables, there really is no right or wrong on this topic. What matters is, are you happy with what you have… and are getting? Does it satisfy your sexual desire? Do you feel loved and wanted? Do you trust and respect your partner, can they/do they trust and respect you…
It really encourages far more questions than answers.
I found a great article in SMH click the link to check it out.